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"Love is Blind" and there's a proof... "My mom started to loving me before seeing my face" :) – TheLoveStories
This is all about our Lil Darling. I love the above quotes! Ngee. Khayra dah pandai menerima arahan and mostly dah faham apa kita cakap. (Cross refers this entry).
*Note : This entry is for my personal record on Khayra’s progress.
Scene I
Khayra macam mengantuk dan nak baring. So I asked her :
Ibu : Khayra nak tidur?
Khayra : (Angguk)
Ibu : Khayra wants milk?
Khayra : Nak! (Angguk)
She slept right away after drinking her milk.
Scene II
I was busy keeping my handbags at my parents’ house and noticed one handbag that I rarely use now and gave it to Khayra to play with.
Ibu : Jom gi G*iant! (said to Khayra when she was busy ‘exploring’ the said handbag).
Khayra : (Tiba-tiba zip handbag dan galas handbag nak ikut Ibu. Haha!)
Both of my parents laughed their hearts out! Ngee.
Scene III
There were two menus that my Ummi prepared to Khayra. When I arrived home from work, I asked her :
Ibu : Khayra, nak makan mee? (while pointing at bihun sup on the table)
Khayra : (Geleng)
Ibu : So you want rice and fish? (while pointing at periuk nasi)
Khayra : Nak! (Angguk banyak kali. Haha!)
To proof that she really understands what I asked her just now, saya try suap bihun tapi bila Khayra tengok bihun, dia geleng kepala dan berlalu pergi. But bila suap nasi, dia nganga je dan habiskan 2 pinggan nasi. Hehe.
Scene IV
At Tokcik’s house. Khayra was looking at fish dalam kolam kecil milik Tokcik.
Tokcik : Banyak tak fish?
Khayra : (Geleng)
Tokcik : (Gelak) Haha. Ada 3 ekor je, memang tak banyak. Haha!
Then we asked her several questions to show to Tokcik.
Ibu : Mana mata Khayra?
Khayra : (Kenyit mata)
Ibu : Tangan?
Khayra : (Tunjuk tangan sambil pusing-pusing pergelangan tangan)
Ibu : (And the rests of questions regarding her body parts which she identified
correctly)
Tokcik : (Mencelah) Nyanyi lagu ‘Ibu’? (Refers to lagu “Ibu Ratu Hatiku”)
Khayra : (Geleng kepala, senyum dan peluk Ibu, malu. Haha!)
Scene V
Khayra would usually panggil saya “Mama” instead of “Ibu”.
Khayra : Mamma!
Ibu : Where is Mama?
Khayra : (Buat isyarat tangan tiada)
Ibu : Where is Ibu?
Khayra : Ni ni ni (pointing out at me! Haha!)
But then again, she would call me “Mam-ma”. Heh. Khayra dah boleh panggil "Abah" dengan jayanya. Hehe.
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I just could not understand apa perasaan ibu yang buang anak sendiri after melahirkan. Apa yang dia rasa time tu and apa yang dia fikir time buang anak? Seriously anak is the best gift dan sejak bergelar Ibu, tak pernah sedetik pun saya tak rindu anak saya. Spending time with my daughter is the precious time and seeing her development is the best memory.
Please stop the babies dumping. Please love your babies. Please, please, please!